Tips on choosing an advocate

• When you choose an advocate, make sure that he or she is prepared
  

• Make sure the person presents him or herself in a professional manner.

• Make sure that the advocate shares your views on your child’s education.

• Some advocates bring their personal anger to the table. Choose an advocate who is strong but diplomatic.

• Do not forego preparation for the IEP meeting because you “trust” your advocate to do this.

• Prepare for the meeting WITH your advocate. The advocate must represent your point of view but their job is not to take over. This is YOUR child and YOUR meeting.

• When preparing with your advocate, identify what is not negotiable, and what you are willing to compromise on. Prioritize your issues.

• Make sure your advocate has a copy of and has read all of your child’s records.

• Do not hire an advocate one day before the meeting. This will not give the advocate enough time to read the records and prepare properly with you

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